Shared Qualities Vocabulary
474 curated labels for structured feedback—what Self and Others select to map perception gaps.
Get FeedbackWhat A Quality Means Here
A quality is a perceived signal—not a diagnosis, score, or judgment. It describes how something is experienced or observed by others. When Self selects "Supportive" and Others do too, that quality lands in Aligned. When only Others see it, it's Revealed. This shared vocabulary makes the Identity Delta visible and comparable.
How To Use The Vocabulary
Each feedback topic has its own curated set of qualities. Both Self and Others select from the same vocabulary—this is what makes the comparison meaningful. Results land in the Four Corners of Discovery:
Aligned
Self ✓ Others ✓
Revealed
Self ✗ Others ✓
Hidden
Self ✓ Others ✗
Untapped
Self ✗ Others ✗
Most Common Qualities
Qualities that appear across the most feedback topics.
Frequently Asked Questions
Why so many qualities?
Different feedback topics require different vocabularies. A quality like 'Boundary-Setting' makes sense for relationship topics but not for brand feedback. The 474 qualities ensure every topic has a precise, relevant set of labels for Self and Others to select from.
How are qualities chosen?
Each quality is curated to be observable, signal-first, and non-judgmental. They describe how something is perceived or experienced—not diagnoses or evaluations. This enables honest, comparable feedback without defensiveness.
Can I compare across topics?
Some qualities appear across multiple topics (like 'Supportive' or 'Clear'), enabling pattern recognition across different feedback contexts. The Four Corners of Discovery reveals where these patterns show up.
What about negative or loaded qualities?
Qualities include both positive and challenging attributes. 'Dismissive' and 'Supportive' might both appear in a topic's vocabulary. This balance ensures the Identity Delta captures the full perception gap, not just flattering feedback.
How do qualities map to the Four Corners?
When Self and Others both select a quality, it lands in 'Aligned.' When only Others select it, it's 'Revealed' (a blind spot). When only Self selects it, it's 'Hidden.' When neither selects it, it's 'Untapped' potential.
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